The relation between you and everything and everyone you have come across is arbitrary.
Prove yourself time to time to the world that nothing can hold you back. We are fighting this battle, You and I and a lot many.
The binary pair introduced by Ferdinand de Saussure in his “Course in General Linguistics” (1916).
Everybody is worthy of loving one or the other way. Impression on depression must change, we must demystify the shackels